Ellen & Daniel

  1. Baby in Time

    Honouring pregnancy and infant loss, since 2019

  1. In 2019 we worked with Remy Downing on a piece of jewellery for women who had experienced miscarriage. Remy had recently founded Baby in Time, a project to break the silence around pregnancy loss. The pendant we designed together is the size and weight of an embryo at 7-8 weeks, the age at which most miscarriages occur. It is small enough to sit close to the heart, and discreet enough to wear every day. Baby in Time as an organisation has since closed. The piece continues, with Remy’s blessing, and $80 from every necklace sold now goes to Pink Elephants Australia.

The Baby in Time Necklace is a way to honour your angel baby - a tangible reminder to keep them close to your heart. In a time that can feel invisible and silent, these pieces are created to hold space for love, grief, memory and connection. We’re so proud to be partnering with Kate and Kole and giving back to Pink Elephants Support Network, who provide support, resources and community for families navigating pregnancy and infant loss. Together, we hope to help remove the silence and stigma around loss and remind people that they are never alone.

Remy Ellicott — Designer of Baby In Time

  1. Baby in Time Necklace, solid 9ct gold miscarriage memorial pendant by Kate & Kole

  2. The Design

    A small solid bean, first printed in wax, then poured in silver or gold and hand finished in our Newcastle studio. The size and weight are deliberate, an acknowledgement of something so often unacknowledged.

    Available in 9ct and 18ct yellow, rose and white gold, and solid silver. Each can be engraved with an initial, a date, or a name, and a flush set birthstone can be added for your baby in time’s due date. 

  1. Why We Made It

    1 in 4 Australian women will experience a miscarriage. On average, six stillborn babies are born in Australia every day. For most of those women there is no funeral, no formal mourning, often no public acknowledgement that anything has happened at all. We made Baby in Time because the women in our lives, including women on our team, told us they wanted something to hold. A piece that says: this was real, and I remember.

  2. Where Your $80 Goes

    Every Baby in Time necklace sold sends $80 to Pink Elephants Australia. Pink Elephants is the only Australian charity dedicated specifically to early pregnancy loss, and their 1:1 peer support programme matches women with trained Peer Ambassadors who have experienced loss themselves. $80 funds a full support session for a woman who would otherwise grieve alone.

  1. If You Need Support

    You don’t need to buy anything to reach the people below. We’ve listed them because we want this page to be useful first.

    Pink Elephants Support Network — 1:1 peer support for early pregnancy loss. pinkelephants.org.au

    Sands Australia — support for stillbirth and newborn death. 1300 308 307. sands.org.au

    Red Nose Grief and Loss — 24/7 bereavement line. 1300 308 307. rednose.org.au

    PANDA — perinatal anxiety and depression support. 1300 726 306. panda.org.au

    Lifeline — 24/7 crisis support. 13 11 14.

    Bears of Hope — pregnancy and infant loss support. bearsofhope.org.au

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    Baby in Time Necklace

    For the person in your life who needs to know they are not alone. A portion of every purchase supports bereaved parents throughout Australia via SANDS.

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  2. Close-up of a delicate gold pendant necklace on a woman's neck, with soft focus on her hand and polished nails, epitomising luxury jewellery.